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Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Sexy Face

I have learned that men are very visual.  Not just that they appreciate a beautiful woman, although they do, but that they have almost a photographic memory when it comes to images, especially sexy ones.  I want to be the image my husband dreams of and gets hot over.  I am working to improve myself, for him and me, and have goals that I have shared with you before in regards to losing weight in the post Ustacould.

I was thinking a lot about being sexy.  Now, being sexy is different to different people so I am specifically talking about what my husband finds sexy.  Sometimes what he finds sexy, I just shake my head at in wonder.

One of the things that my husband finds sexy is when I shave my legs.  As a stay at home mom of three kids, I don't get much alone time.  They even follow me to the bathroom, so often my alone time is in the shower.  So, unfortunately, when my husband comes to take a peek I am not always receptive...especially when he lets all the cold air in and I can feel the hair on my legs growing back.  So his view is typically something like this:

 
This probably isn't the image that will bring up hot thoughts in Levi's brain.  So, I am working on my sexy looks:)  Here is what I am aiming for:
 
 
She actually still doesn't look too thrilled, does she? (she also doesn't look like she is actually shaving either)...
 
But this one: 
 
 
This is the look I need to go for!  That is a good smirk right there.
 
 
And I should work on my sexy librarian look:
 
 
Good Lord...not that!  How about this:
 
 
And the Titanic look:
 
 
 
No, no, no...not that one.  This one:
 
And he has some weird obsession with me stretching:
 
 
I don't get it, but I suppose I should make sure I look hot when I am doing it.
 
So go practice your sexy face and give your spouse something to imagine:)  What are some things that your spouse finds sexy?
 
 
 
Yeah, uh, keep practicing:)
 

20 comments:

  1. Wearing his long button down shirt, my glasses and my hair piled in a messy bunch on my head. I consider that my the.day.is.finally.done attire, but he says it's sexy. Go figure. :)

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    1. Something about us in their attire I think...totally wouldn't work the other way around would it:) LOL

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  2. Wow Bea this is a good one! Gotta think about it......It always amazed me that he said there was not much sexier than me being pregnant. I felt like an umpa lumpa but he thought it was sexy that part of him was growing inside me. I guess that's why he kept me that way quite often the last 26yrs. lol The other one that comes to mind is he wants my hair down. I have fairly long, dark, very curly hair. As recently as Sunday, I had it up in a messy bun to go to a Superbowl Party and he said.....aren't you going to wash your hair so you can wear it down?

    Ummm I guess I am now!!!

    My oldest daughter looked at her Dad with an evil glare and said.......you are such a MAN!!!! ;)

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    1. How funny! Levi loves my hair down too...and the whole pregnant thing also. I think it makes the feel like "Ah, yeah...I did that...all verile and stuff":)

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  3. Hey Bea -

    Matthew always loved me in one of his shirts...I thought it was sloppy but he thought it was sexy. Ya just never know. ;)

    Had to laugh at the pics you posted, the last 2 had me ROFL.

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Thanks Cat!...I think it is that whole in their clothes thing...wouldn't work the other way...haha

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  4. So I think mine is when I'm sleeping or he's just woken me up and I'm what he calls all "gummy." How can that be sexy? It is of course also the time when I'm quietest and not making any trouble...so there's something to be said for it!

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    1. Sleep tousled...one of Levi's favs too...makes them think about the night before:) wink wink

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  5. Great post Bea, awesome that you and these other ladies are trying to look sexy for your men. You know they already find you all hot, that's why they're with you, so why not ramp it up?

    Colour me impressed.

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  6. very fun...I will have to work on my sexy look...working on eating healthier and exercising more...husband like to see me in garters and stockings and a skirt or dress... :-) Have a great day, Terps

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    1. I also read that just seeing us try to look good for them makes us more sexy! :)

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  7. Don't forget pigtails, sexy boots or shoes, and a sweet/sexy vibe. I'm sometimes amazed at stuff my wife does that I find to be super sexy.

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    1. So, I know that Levi likes my knee high boots although he doesn't like that they make me taller than him:), but I had to ask about the pigtails...he was like...Yeah (like yeah, duh:)) Thanks for the hints:)

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  8. Bea,
    This post had me smiling all of the way through. I wonder if I can create a sexy face while yawning? :)

    Elisa Xo

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    1. Glad to make you smile Elisa...maybe if you cover your yawn backwards and throw in a stretch:)

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  9. Bea:)

    I am just now reading this post and I just loved it! Mr. B and I were actually discussing this very topic while I cooked dinner. I told him..."See, I bet you find it so sexy that I am slaving over this stove and cooking you some hot food, all while I am still dressed in my dress and heels." He agreed hahaha oh go figure:) I might have to do a post on this topic and will link you if I do:) Good one Bea!!

    Belle:)

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    1. Thanks Belle! I find it very interesting to read what other men out there find sexy...then I go ask Levi and he looks at me like..."Why didn't you know this?"...so funny!
      Bea

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