I didn't update you on how my last romance post turned out...oops. I was true to my word and did not pack myself any pajamas on our trip. I did find several surprises in my suitcase and wore them and also nothing at all certain nights during our week long trip without kids.
It was like a reboot. I had been struggling with libido issues. The past month, however, has been amazing!! Spring has sprung at Bea's house!
We had a kid birthday party to attend this weekend and as much as Levi did not want to attend, he did. He hates birthday parties. But when your godchild is having a birthday, you probably should be there. Even though he wasn't too happy about it and was the only male in attendance (the kiddo's dad was at work), he was playing with the kids and helping out.
As inappropriate as my timing may have been, I found his enthusiasm in being such an awesome dad and godfather incredibly sexy. I wanted to somehow let him know how I was feeling so when he came over to take a break I gave him a huge hug and whispered in his ear.
"I'm wearing a thong." He loves it when I wear a thong, but honestly it doesn't happen very often...usually when I need to do laundry.
He pulled out of the hug and gave me the "oh really" look.
"Blue and lacy," I whispered and smiled mischievously.
He grinned and then he was pulled away by the kids again.
Over cake and ice cream he was eyeing me appreciatively, and I kept catching him giving me a curious look and eyebrow wiggles.
In the middle of a kid birthday party may not have been the ideal place to tease him, but it was fun and got us both excited for night time to come. He kept asking me what was the earliest the kids could go to bed when we got home. Um...not 6:00!
And the results...I would do it again;)
Hey Bea...so happy your libido has bee rebooted. The teasing during the party is fun...really builds the anticipation. Thanks for sharing.
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Hi Bea glad you had such a great getaway and that your libido has rebooted. Love the teasing at the party. I giggled at Levi asking how early the kids could go to bef lol. Sounds like you should tease again :)
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Roz
I agree with Cat.....building anticipation is fun...and gets great results, no matter where you are. Love that he wondered how early the kids could go to bed...
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My guy hates birthday parties too, it makes it easier if he knows he won't be the only dad there.
ReplyDeleteGood for you, Bea. You did that all so perfectly. Nothing like vacation sex for a reboot.
ReplyDeleteHow perfectly did you execute these little vacation and party scenarios?
ReplyDeleteA) Not packing any PJ's on the trip and wearing the surprises or nothing was a brave and bold idea.
B) The fact that you wore the thong said to Levi you are getting comfortable with your sexuality and that you think of his "wants" and are willing try to meet them. It also tells him you are willing to ask for what you want, in this case time with him.
C) "I gave him a huge hug and whispered in his ear." You made physical contact with him and whispered which increased the intimacy of the moment.
D) "I'm wearing a thong...Blue and lacy," I whispered and smiled mischievously. This added eroticism to the revelation and fed his male visual modality. I am willing to bet you said a little more than that too. ;)
E) "In the middle of a kid birthday party may not have been the ideal place to tease him, but it was fun and got us both excited for night time to come.." It was the perfect place to tease him. This increased the sexual tension in the anticipation he feeling. You were both stimulating and using the most responsive sexual organs you have...your minds.
Here's a very male suggestion for next time. Plan an outing to a public place like a restaurant, movie, shopping mall,etc. I know a mall is not a "romantic" outing unless you go by Frederick's, Victoria's Secret, or the lingerie department as far as he's concerned. Wear his favorite dress, no pants or panty hose allowed. While there, tell him you planned on wearing his favorite thong but it was uncomfortable so you changed your mind. Then wait for his move next. If you deliver the words "wearing" and "changed" just right, Levi's mind will be racing with the possibilities.
You can wait for him to ask and answer with, "What do you think?" At that point you can open your purse and hand them to him. If you are in a secluded place like the car, or a quiet corner, dangle them from your finger. There is something about women going commando, particularly in dresses, that hits a hot button in men and more than a few women. If you find the time and place, you might even try a quick flash. Sorry if any of you ladies find this offensive somehow, but if you want to know how a lot of us husbands fantasize, this would be one way, Be careful though, if you bend over to adjust the strap on your shoe or get that "rock" out of it, you may end up with a pink hand print, though I gather from some community members that may not be a bad thing.
Hey Dan...don't see how any woman could find that suggestion offensive. I used to play games like that with Matthew when we had been apart for a while. We had lots of fun when I wore his favorite skirt and went commando. ;)
DeleteThanks for your understanding support Cat, There are so many women who are not comfortable with admitting their sexuality and asking for what they want which inhibits them from being erotically sensual with their husbands. It creates a cycle in which the don't behave sensually, because they don't see themselves as sexy and desirable which creates a cycle that keeps them from having the deeper connection their husbands desire. They see the cycle as only physical and miss the spiritual component that can come from the open sharing of their common sensualities and sexualities. I honestly do believe there is a spiritual side to the sexual sharing between husband and wife.
Deletesounds fun :-)
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